On Wednesday, the actor shared in an Instagram post that she’s “nervous and terrified” about dating again, and that she’s actually “never” been on the dating scene. She shared a fun video of herself getting ready in the mirror with a text overlay that read: “Welp never thought I’d be here, but here goes…”

“Even though I’m in my [40s], I feel so inexperienced!” she wrote in the caption of the post. “And while it would be easy to just throw in the towel and avoid the potential for awkwardness and hurt, I know God’s got me!”

“These decisions are never easy, and not without sadness,” she said in the October statement. “We will maintain a friendship as we co-parent our beautiful children.”

Hardrict and Mowry share two children: Cree, 12, and Cairo, 5.

“For them seeing their mother walk in truth. I feel like it’s a great lesson for them because it was not an easy decision,” she said.